Keeping It Together, Together: 10 Tips For Supporting Your Parent After a Dementia Diagnosis

Emotional. Overwhelming. And those are the good parts. Learning that a parent has been diagnosed with Alzheimer’s or another type of dementia marks the beginning of a journey that requires both practical preparations and emotional support. These 10 essential actions can help you navigate a time that’s tough for you both.

1. Accept the Diagnosis

Processing the news is crucial. It’s normal to feel a range of emotions, including sadness and fear. Encourage your parent to talk about their feelings and assure them of your support.

2. Educate Yourself

Learn about the specific type of dementia your parent has been diagnosed with. Understanding the progression of the disease can help you anticipate and plan for future care needs.

3. Get Legal Affairs in Order

Early on, help your parent update or create essential legal documents such as a will, power of attorney, and advance directives for healthcare decisions. This ensures their wishes are known and legally binding.

4. Assess Home Safety

Assess your parent’s living environment for safety hazards. Remove potential fall risks, ensure smoke detectors are working, and consider using technology for monitoring if needed.

5. Stay Engaged

Incorporate meaningful and enjoyable activities into your parent’s daily routine. Engaging in pursuits that stimulate the mind and senses, like interactive games, music sessions, or sensory exercises, can greatly enhance their overall quality of life.

6. Discuss the Long-Term

Talk about future care options with your parent, such as home care or a memory care community. Planning ahead allows for informed decisions based on their needs and preferences.

7. Make a Financial Plan

Understand the costs associated with dementia care and explore financial options such as long-term care insurance, veteran’s benefits, home sale, and Medicare or Medicaid.

8. Seek Support

You are not alone in this journey. Joining support groups or seeking guidance from organizations like the Alzheimer’s Association can provide valuable resources and emotional support.

9. Take Care of Yourself

Caring for a parent with dementia can be demanding. Remember to prioritize your own physical and emotional well-being. Taking breaks and seeking respite care when needed are essential for your own health.

10. Stay Connected

Maintain open communication with healthcare providers, family members, and friends involved in your parent’s care. Regular updates and collaboration ensure a holistic approach to their well-being.

Navigating life after a dementia diagnosis requires patience, understanding, and proactive planning. Supporting your parent through their dementia journey is not something you have to do alone. Artis has helped more than 5,000 families navigate the family caregiver journey. Find an Artis community and give us a call today.